Almost Christians PART 4

Close to Jesus… But Not Following Him

From Almost to Fully Surrendered

The goal is not to expose people and leave them there.

The goal is restoration.

Because no one has to stay an “almost Christian.”

The invitation of Jesus is still open.

Not to label yourself—but to follow Him fully.

In John 10:27, Jesus says:
“My sheep hear my voice, I know them, and they follow me.” (CSB)

That’s the difference.

Not just hearing.
Not just knowing.
But following.

So how do you move from almost… to all in?

1. Get Honest About Where You Really Are

Stop comparing yourself to others.
Stop hiding behind the label.

Ask:

  • Am I actually obeying Jesus?
  • Or am I just identifying with Him?

2. Surrender What You’ve Been Holding Onto

There is always something.

Control.
Sin.
Fear.
Pride.

Following Jesus requires releasing it.

3. Commit to Daily Obedience

Following Jesus is not a one-time decision—it’s a daily one.

It shows up in:

  • Your choices
  • Your priorities
  • Your responses

Not perfection—but direction.

4. Stay Close—but This Time, Fully Surrendered

Closeness is not the problem.

Closeness without surrender is.

But when you combine both—proximity and obedience—that’s where transformation happens.


Final Truth

Jesus is not looking for people who wear His name.
He is looking for people who walk in His ways.

The question is not:

“Are you a Christian?”

The real question is:

Are you following Him?

Almost Christians. PART 3

Close to Jesus… But Not Following Him

The Cost Most People Avoid

Jesus never hid the cost of following Him.

We do.

Modern Christianity often highlights:

  • Blessing
  • Purpose
  • Peace
  • Favor

And while those are real, they are not the starting point.

The starting point is surrender.

In Luke 9:23, Jesus says:
“If anyone wants to follow after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow me.” (CSB)

That is not symbolic language—it’s a real demand.

To follow Jesus means:

  • Denying what you want when it conflicts with what He says
  • Choosing obedience over comfort
  • Living differently than the world around you

And this is where many people settle into being “almost Christians.”

Because they want:

  • Salvation without surrender
  • Grace without change
  • Jesus as Savior—but not as Lord

But that version of Christianity doesn’t exist in Scripture.

The cross is not decoration—it’s direction.

It points to death:

  • Death to self
  • Death to pride
  • Death to sinful desires

And on the other side of that death is real life.

But most people don’t want to die to themselves—they want Jesus to improve their life without interrupting it.

So they stay close… but not committed.

They listen… but don’t obey.

They believe… but don’t follow.

The cost of following Jesus is not popular—but it is necessary.

Because without surrender, there is no transformation.

And without transformation, there is no evidence of true discipleship.

“Almost Christians” want the crown… without the cross.

But the cross always comes first.

Almost Christians PART 2

Close to Jesus… But Not Following Him

Close to Jesus—but Still Not Following

One of the most dangerous places a person can be is close to Jesus—but not surrendered to Him.

Because distance is obvious.
But closeness without commitment is deceptive.

There were many people in Scripture who were around Jesus—listening, watching, even participating—yet they never truly followed Him.

Think about Judas.

He walked with Jesus.
He heard every teaching.
He saw every miracle.

And yet, he was never transformed.

He was close… but not surrendered.

In Matthew 7:21, Jesus says:
“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven.” (CSB)

That means proximity is not enough.

You can:

  • Attend church regularly
  • Serve in ministry
  • Know Scripture
  • Speak Christian language

And still not be a follower of Jesus.

That’s sobering—but necessary.

Because following Jesus is not about exposure—it’s about submission.

“Almost Christians” are often comfortable with:

  • Inspiration without transformation
  • Agreement without obedience
  • Emotion without surrender

They like Jesus… but they don’t yield to Him.

They admire Him… but they don’t follow Him.

They want the benefits of salvation—but not the cost of discipleship.

But Jesus never separated the two.

To follow Him means:

  • He leads—you don’t
  • He defines truth—you don’t
  • He sets direction—you don’t

That’s where many step back.

Because following requires letting go.

Letting go of:

  • Control
  • Preferences
  • Sin
  • Self-direction

And this is where the line is drawn.

Not between believers and unbelievers in appearance—but between those who have surrendered and those who haven’t.

You can be around Jesus your whole life and still miss Him.

That’s what makes “almost” so dangerous.

Because it feels like enough… until it’s not.

Almost Christians PART 1

Close to Jesus… But Not Following Him

When “Christian” Becomes a Badge Instead of a Calling

Somewhere along the way, the word Christian shifted.

What began as a label given by outsiders has become a badge worn with pride. It’s printed on shirts, added to bios, claimed in conversations—but often disconnected from actual obedience to Jesus.

The reality is this:

Jesus never called anyone to be a “Christian.”
He called people to follow Him.

In Matthew 4:19, Jesus says, “Follow me… and I will make you fish for people.” (CSB)

That’s the invitation. Not:

  • “Identify with me”
  • “Agree with me”
  • “Wear the label”

But: Follow Me.

The term “Christian” first appears in Acts 11:26, and it wasn’t a compliment—it was a description. People looked at the disciples and said, “These people are acting like Christ.”

It was evidence, not identity.

Today, the problem is not that people call themselves Christians.
The problem is that many stop there.

We’ve reduced faith to a category instead of a commitment.

You can be:

  • A Christian by culture
  • A Christian by upbringing
  • A Christian by association

But none of those make you a follower of Jesus.

A follower:

  • Denies self
  • Takes up their cross
  • Walks in obedience

That’s not cultural—that’s costly.

The danger of turning “Christian” into a badge is that it creates a false sense of security. People assume they are right with God because they carry the label, while their life remains unchanged.

But Jesus never affirmed labels—He examined lives.

In Luke 6:46, He asks:
“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and don’t do the things I say?” (CSB)

That question still cuts today.

Because it exposes the difference between:

  • Saying vs. surrendering
  • Claiming vs. following
  • Identity vs. obedience

This is where “almost Christians” live.

Close enough to speak the language.
Close enough to know the stories.
Close enough to wear the name.

But not close enough to walk in submission.

The call of Jesus is not to carry a title—it is to carry a cross.

And until that shift happens, people can live their entire lives believing they are with Him… while never actually following Him.

When Casual Christianity Meets a Holy God

There’s something profound that happens when you encounter something truly powerful for the first time. Whether it’s standing before the ocean’s vastness, experiencing the raw force of a hurricane, or witnessing something that fundamentally shifts your perspective—these moments change us. They transform our understanding from theoretical to experiential, from secondhand knowledge to personal encounter.

This same principle applies to our relationship with God, yet many of us have never truly encountered Him as He really is.

The Problem with Casual Christianity

We live in an age of casual Christianity—where God has been reduced from the Almighty Creator to something more like a buddy or a “homie.” We’ve taken God from His rightful place on the throne and brought Him down to our level, making Him comfortable, manageable, and convenient.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth: we don’t fear the Lord because we have no vision of the Lord.

When was the last time you saw God for who He truly is? When did you last do something and actually worry about God seeing it? For most of us, we go about our business—doing our “junk,” as we might call it—without a second thought about God’s presence. We’ve lost the reverence, the awe, the holy fear that should characterize our relationship with the Creator of the universe.

Isaiah’s Transformative Vision

In Isaiah chapter 6, we find a powerful account of what happens when someone encounters God as He truly is. Isaiah writes: “In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord seated on a throne, high and lofty, and the hem of his robe filled the temple.”

Notice what Isaiah saw—not God walking down the street like a pal, but God seated on a throne. This wasn’t a casual encounter. This was a revelation of divine majesty.

The seraphim, angelic beings who had never left God’s throne room and had never sinned, covered their faces and feet in God’s presence. They called out to one another: “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of armies. His glory fills the whole earth.”

Think about that. These perfect beings who have never disobeyed God still cover themselves in His presence because they understand who He is. Yet we, who sin regularly, approach God casually as if He’s lucky to have us show up.

The Right Response: Humility, Not Casualty

When Isaiah encountered God’s holiness, his response wasn’t casual. He didn’t celebrate his lifestyle or debate his behavior. He didn’t try to justify himself or blame others.

Instead, he said: “Woe is me, for I am ruined, because I am a man of unclean lips and live among a people of unclean lips, and because my eyes have seen the King, the Lord of armies.”

This is humility. Not weakness, but honest recognition of who God is and who we are in comparison.

The problem with casual Christianity is that it prevents this kind of honest self-assessment. When we think God is our buddy, we never apologize for what we do. We never truly repent. Repentance seems unnecessary when we’ve domesticated the Divine.

But true repentance is simple: it means walking away from what you were doing. It means recognizing sin as sin and turning from it—not because you’re afraid of punishment, but because you’ve seen the holiness of God and realize how incompatible your sin is with His nature.

What Changes When We See God Correctly

When we begin to see God as He truly is—holy, powerful, and seated on the throne—everything changes:

Our pride disappears. We can no longer walk around with our noses in the air, looking down on others. We remember what we were and recognize that if God could change us, He can change anyone.

Our awareness increases. We begin to look at people the way God looks at them. We start to weep over the lost instead of judging them. We see hurting people instead of problems to avoid.

Our sin becomes undeniable. We don’t have to ask, “Is this a sin?” We know. And more importantly, we don’t want to hide it—we want to confess it and be cleansed.

The right perception of God changes our behavior. Not through legalism or religious duty, but through genuine love and reverence for a holy God who deserves our devotion.

The Call to Be All In

Here’s the challenging truth: You’ll never see a holy God as long as you remain a casual Christian.

Remember Peter, the experienced fisherman who knew boats like the back of his hand? When Jesus called him to step out of the boat and walk on water, Peter had a choice. He could keep one foot in the boat (staying comfortable and safe) or he could go all in.

We would never have the story of Peter walking on water if he hadn’t taken both feet out of the boat.

God isn’t looking for Christians who want to keep one foot in the world and one foot on His turf. He wants us to jump in with both feet—to be fully committed, fully devoted, fully surrendered.

What does being “all in” look like? It means trusting God when you can’t see the next step. It means obeying even when it doesn’t make sense. It means selling out completely for Him, holding nothing back.

When you’re all in, you don’t worry about whether God will come through—you know He will because you’ve experienced His faithfulness. You live by faith, not by sight. You trust Him with your family, your finances, your future, and your fears.

A Church That Prays

One practical way to move from casual Christianity to devoted following is through prayer—not quick, convenient prayers squeezed into busy schedules, but dedicated time seeking God’s face.

We need to become people of prayer. An hour of prayer might seem daunting, but when we break it down—spending a few minutes at different prayer stations, praying through different concerns and requests—we discover that time with God passes quickly when we’re genuinely seeking Him.

Prayer changes us. It realigns our perspective. It helps us see God as He truly is and ourselves as we truly are.

The Urgent Reality

Jesus is coming back. That day is closer now than it’s ever been. We don’t need more casual Christians going through the motions. We need devoted followers reaching people for Christ, doing what Jesus has called each of us to do.

The Lord has work to do, but He needs people willing to do it. Like Isaiah, we need to say, “Here I am. Send me.”

The question isn’t whether God is capable or whether His plans will succeed. The question is: Will we be part of it? Will we step off the bench and into the game? Will we exchange our casual approach for wholehearted devotion?

When we truly encounter God—when we see Him seated on His throne, high and lifted up, holy and powerful—we’ll never be the same. Our perception will change. Our behavior will change. Our lives will change.

And that’s exactly what the world needs to see: a church that has encountered the living God and been transformed by His presence.

“The Slow Work of God” PART 4

What God Builds Slowly, He Builds Strongly

God’s goal is not fast results—it’s lasting results.

And lasting transformation requires time.

In Galatians 6:9, we’re reminded:
“Let us not get tired of doing good, for we will reap at the proper time if we don’t give up.” (CSB)

That phrase matters:

“At the proper time.”

Not your time.
Not your schedule.

God’s.

Because He knows when the work is ready.

He knows when you are ready.

And He refuses to release something prematurely that could damage what He’s building.

Slow growth produces:

  • Deep roots
  • Strong character
  • Lasting change

Quick growth often produces:

  • Shallow faith
  • Weak foundations
  • Temporary results

God is not interested in temporary.

He is building something that lasts.

Something that can withstand pressure.

Something that holds when life gets hard.

That’s why the process matters.

That’s why the waiting matters.

That’s why the slow work matters.

Because what God is doing is bigger than what you can see right now.

And when you look back, you’ll realize:

The slow seasons were not setbacks.

They were setup.

They were preparing you.

Strengthening you.

Positioning you.

For what God had planned all along.


Final Truth

God is not slow.

He is intentional.

“The Slow Work of God” PART 3

Trusting God in the Waiting

Waiting is one of the hardest parts of following God.

Not because we don’t believe He can move—but because we don’t understand why He hasn’t yet.

Waiting tests your patience.
Waiting tests your faith.
Waiting tests your trust.

In Isaiah 40:31, we’re told:
“But those who trust in the Lord will renew their strength…” (CSB)

That word “trust” is often lived out in waiting.

Because waiting forces you to decide:

Do I trust God’s timing…
or do I try to take control?

Many people struggle here.

They start strong—but get tired in the waiting.

They begin to:

  • Doubt
  • Force outcomes
  • Settle for less
  • Walk away from what God is doing

Not because God failed—but because waiting felt too long.

But waiting is not wasted.

Waiting is where God develops:

  • Patience
  • Dependence
  • Surrender

Because if God gave everything instantly, you would never learn to trust Him deeply.

Waiting shifts your focus from:

  • “When will this happen?”
    to
  • “What is God doing in me right now?”

That shift changes everything.

Because now you stop resisting the season—and start growing in it.

Waiting is not passive.

It’s active trust.

It looks like:

  • Continuing to pray
  • Continuing to obey
  • Continuing to believe

Even when nothing seems to be changing.

This is where faith becomes real.

Not in quick answers—but in sustained trust.

Because anyone can trust God when things are moving.

But real faith trusts Him when things feel still.

And here’s the truth:

God is never inactive in your waiting.

He is always working.

You just don’t always see it yet.

“The Slow Work of God” PART 2

Why Real Transformation Takes Time

Why Process Matters More Than Moments

Many people are chasing moments with God.

Powerful services.
Emotional encounters.
Breakthrough experiences.

And those moments matter.

But moments were never meant to replace process.

They were meant to point you into it.

Because transformation doesn’t happen in a moment.

It happens through consistent process.

In Romans 5:3–4, we’re told:
“We also boast in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance, endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope.” (CSB)

That is a process.

  • Affliction → Endurance
  • Endurance → Character
  • Character → Hope

None of that happens instantly.

It develops over time.

But many people want to skip that.

They want:

  • Hope without endurance
  • Character without testing
  • Growth without process

And it doesn’t work that way.

Moments can inspire you.

But process is what transforms you.

Moments can stir your emotions.

But process reshapes your life.

This is why people can experience powerful encounters with God…
and still struggle with the same patterns afterward.

Because moments don’t automatically produce change.

Application over time does.

Consistency does.

Obedience does.

And that takes process.

This is where frustration often comes in.

People say:

  • “I had that experience with God—why am I still dealing with this?”

Because transformation is not a one-time event.

It’s a daily decision.

God uses moments to get your attention.

But He uses process to change who you are.

That means:

  • Showing up when you don’t feel like it
  • Praying when it feels routine
  • Obeying when it’s not exciting

That’s where real growth happens.

In the ordinary.

In the repetition.

In the steady commitment.

“Almost Christians” chase moments.

Followers of Jesus commit to process.

Because they understand something important:

What God is building in you matters more than what you feel in a moment.

And if you embrace the process, those moments will carry deeper meaning.

Because now they’re not just experiences—they’re part of transformation.

“The Slow Work of God” Why Real Transformation Takes Time

PART 1: God Is Not in a Hurry

We live in a culture that moves fast.

Fast food.
Fast results.
Fast growth.
Fast answers.

And if something takes too long, we assume something is wrong.

That mindset has quietly crept into how many people approach God.

We want:

  • Quick breakthroughs
  • Immediate change
  • Instant clarity

But God doesn’t work on our timeline.

He works on His.

And His work is often… slow.

Not because He lacks power—but because He is building something deeper than quick results.

In Philippians 1:6, we’re reminded:
“I am sure of this, that he who started a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”(CSB)

Notice what that says:

God started a work…
and He is carrying it to completion.

That implies process.

That implies time.

That implies development.

The problem is—we don’t always like process.

We want outcomes without waiting.
Change without stretching.
Growth without discomfort.

But that’s not how God works.

Because God is not just trying to fix your situation—He is forming your life.

And formation takes time.

Think about it this way:

A microwave heats things quickly—but doesn’t develop depth.
An oven takes longer—but transforms what’s inside completely.

God is not microwaving your life.

He’s developing you with intention.

And that requires patience.

Many people get discouraged in the middle of God’s process because they don’t see immediate results.

They think:

  • “Why am I still struggling with this?”
  • “Why hasn’t this changed yet?”
  • “Why is this taking so long?”

But delay is not denial.

And slow progress is still progress.

God is not behind.

He is intentional.

He knows what needs to be addressed:

  • In your heart
  • In your mindset
  • In your character

And He works layer by layer.

The danger is not that God is moving slowly.

The danger is that people walk away because they expected Him to move quickly.

They quit the process.

They abandon the work.

They stop trusting the timing.

But followers of Jesus learn something different:

God’s pace is not a problem—it’s part of the plan.

Because what God builds slowly…
He builds strongly.

The Foundation of Everything: Returning to the Fear of the Lord

There’s a profound truth that often gets lost in our modern understanding of faith: the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge. Not the middle. Not something we revisit occasionally. The beginning—the very foundation upon which everything else must be built.

When Familiarity Replaces Reverence

Jim Baker, the televangelist who fell from grace in spectacular fashion, once made a statement that should shake us all: “I never stopped loving Jesus. I just quit fearing Him.”

Let that sink in for a moment.

How many people do we see fall away—not because they stopped loving God, but because they stopped fearing Him? They made Jesus their buddy, their pal, someone they could high-five casually rather than the Holy God who spoke the universe into existence.

We’ve become so comfortable with God that we’ve forgotten who He is. We walk into His presence like we’re meeting a friend at a coffee shop rather than approaching the throne of the Almighty. We’ve replaced reverence with familiarity, and in doing so, we’ve lost something precious and essential.

The Foundation That Holds Everything

Anyone in construction knows this simple truth: if your foundation is wrong, everything built on it will be wrong. You can try to straighten things out as you go, but you’re fighting a losing battle. The foundation must be right from the start.

Jesus taught this principle in the parable of the wise and foolish builders. One built his house on rock; the other on sand. When the storms came, only one house remained standing.

Our spiritual lives work the same way. The fear of the Lord is that rock-solid foundation. Without it, everything else crumbles. You can attend church every Sunday, volunteer for every ministry, and memorize Scripture—but if you don’t fear God, your spiritual house will collapse when the storms come.

Proverbs 1:7 tells us plainly: “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.” Knowledge isn’t just information—it’s applied wisdom. It’s how we actually live our lives. And it all starts with fearing God.

Understanding Holy Fear

But what does it mean to fear God?

It’s not about being terrified that He’ll hurt us. Moses clarified this in Exodus 20:20: “Don’t be afraid, for God has come to test you so that you will fear Him and will not sin.”

There’s a fear that drives away, and there’s a fear that keeps you right. The fear of the Lord is like a child’s healthy respect for a loving parent—not terror of abuse, but reverence for authority combined with trust in love.

Think about it this way: A good father might be physically incapable of harming you, yet you still reverence him. Why? Because he’s your dad. That position deserves honor, respect, and yes, a certain kind of fear—not fear that he’ll hurt you, but fear (or reverence) because of who he is and the authority he holds.

God loved us so much that He sent His only Son to die while we were still His enemies. That’s the depth of His love. Our fear of Him isn’t rooted in thinking He’ll harm us—it’s rooted in knowing He’ll do exactly what He says because He loves us that much.

When Fear Is Missing, Sin Becomes Casual

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: when we lose the fear of the Lord, sin becomes casual.

We start asking questions like:

  • “Is it really that bad?”
  • “How far is too far?”
  • “Does it really matter?”

We negotiate with holiness. We treat God’s commands like suggestions. We convince ourselves that certain sins are “small” or that we can handle just a little compromise.

But there are no small sins in the eyes of a holy God. A “little white lie” is still a lie—and Scripture is clear that liars won’t inherit the kingdom of heaven. That’s not Tony being harsh; that’s what the Bible says.

The first look might be free, but when you go back for the second one, you’ve crossed a line. When comfort becomes stronger than conviction, you’ve lost the fear of the Lord.

The Transformation Power of a Holy View

Your view of God shapes your entire life.

  • If you view God as small, your obedience will be small.
  • If you view God casually, you’ll live casually.
  • If you view God as holy, your life will change.

When someone encounters the holiness of God, transformation is inevitable. They don’t just stop doing wrong things—they start doing everything differently. They treat their spouse better. They change what they watch and listen to. They protect their eyes and guard their hearts. They build their business on different principles.

Why? Because when you truly see God as holy, you can’t continue living the same way.

Building Reverence Into Your Routine

Restoration doesn’t start with trying harder or doing more. It starts with seeing God rightly—with returning to reverence.

Ask yourself these honest questions:

  1. Do I treat God as holy or as familiar? Have I made Him my buddy instead of my Lord?
  2. Do my decisions reflect awareness of His presence? Would I make different choices if I remembered that God is always with me, always watching, always present?
  3. Do I take sin seriously? Or have I categorized certain sins as acceptable or manageable?
  4. Am I building reverence into my routine? Do I spend time with God daily, reading His Word and praying—not out of obligation but out of love and reverence?

The Question That Changes Everything

Here’s the question that should convict us all: If Jesus walked into your house tonight, what would you change?

Would you change what’s on your TV? What you’re scrolling through on your phone? The way you speak to your family? The habits you’ve justified?

The uncomfortable truth is that Jesus is walking into your house tonight. He’s already there. He sees everything. There are no “oops” moments for God—He’s never surprised by what you do.

So why wait? Why not change it now?

The Path Forward

The beautiful truth is that it doesn’t have to stay this way. You can fix it. Today can be the day you return to the foundation—to the fear of the Lord.

God won’t help you until you take the first step, but once you do, He’ll be right there beside you. His mercies are new every morning. His grace renews daily. He gives us the opportunity to stand back up, dust ourselves off, and continue moving forward.

Return to the beginning. Walk in the fear of the Lord. Honor God in your thoughts, your choices, and your life. Build your foundation on reverence, and let your life reflect His holiness.

The fear of the Lord isn’t a burden—it’s the beginning of everything good, everything true, everything that will last when the storms come. It’s the foundation that holds when everything else shakes.

Are you building on that foundation today?